Choose happiness- its the best.

The illusion of happiness is the pivot for sadness.

 

A request to my dear sister,

 

Life is a movie based on a true event, Huh? We do not think about it that way in younger days but as the years advance, we gain experience and become aware of many perceptions that are often ignored by most people.  

 

A philosopher of personality once said that to live your life as God planned it, you must live a life worth remembering. Whose context to recall your history? Of course dear, your soul and inner peace. It sounds confusing like some rocket science assignment, isn't it? The point at first may sound irrelevant or as a historical quote of civilization but with an open and enthusiastic mind, the concept is easier than smiling back at a stranger.

 

Memories make life a history always crisscrossing in your mind. An interesting life should harbor fewer or no heartbreaks and suicide cases. Finding peace with yourself is a rare talent in humanity and involves addressing your emotions on the verge of hiccups.

A case study involving April, a middle-aged lady amid blossoming meeting a philosopher real happiness. Back then, she was a single mom to a young and smart boy living in a semi-urban area all by themselves. A successful and focused individual she was, but fate always subjected her to misery and misfortunes.

 

She met a philosopher Jack Simpson at a community event where he was a guest speaker for a Women Empowerment Organization program aimed at reviving local women's dreams in a developmental forum.

April was a young slender lady with impeccable antecedents regarding her age and matched perfectly with her short temper which was evident every time she narrated a distressing encounter. She was a real picture of determination and hard work but one thing seemed to alter the beauty evident in her life - loneliness.

From a professional view, Jack interpreted loneliness as a condition where you are in great need of something that’s too important but you have no single idea of how to go about it.

Like April, most of us lose motivation and in most cases, the azure of our dreams seems to fade faster than our breathing rate. Jack could not watch her agony in distress any longer - He had to save a soul worth nourishing.

 

Situations in life provoke our reaction which makes up our character.

 

April had an idea to save her dreams but Jack did have to rethink her choices as an animator. She was amid indecisiveness whether to accept a marriage proposal from one of her boyfriends who was a religious mister. Imaginations seemed to converge on an illusion of a beautiful life and a spouse to treat her differently than life itself. However, the boyfriend named John gave the conditions that reminded her of a question about the historical ultimatum during the first world war. Judging from her facial colloquialism, nothing other than a constant smile on her wretched face would make my mentality more serene.

 

Life is short to live in dismay inflicted by an individual without concern about your emotions.

April had found an oasis of hope and completely swam her thoughts wide and deep exposing the fractured structure of her conscious. John wanted her to dive into a personality that he preferred perfect – tailor-made. It was not such a new encounter for a case where a guy gives recommendations on what 'her lady' should adhere to before they tied the knot only that her story appeared more emotional.

 

This is the 21st century! You don't rule women - you consult and incorporate them in making decisions.

 

The main reason people decide to live together in a marital union is to spice up their life but not embedding some crazy routine into another person's life.

 

Misery should never be an option due to a current state of inadequacy in your life.

 

Jack internalized the situation and chose to propose peace of mind which is always irredeemable. April was an ambitious lady and it pained to let her make a mistake for a lifetime. He reminded her that she was the only person who knew herself better and what her desires in life. A promise for a serene mind ignited a spark in her blue eyes and made her aware of what she had been missing in her life for a long time.

 

Freedom of choice

We all are no different from April and deserve the peace of mind from people who we associate and live with. It is our responsibility to choose wisely on spending our life be it in dating or marriage.

Imagine for a moment,

Given the chance, what’s your imagination of a perfect person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life?

 

What’s is it so crucial that you can’t give an exception for in an individual you are interested in?

Do you prefer the appearance, resources, or personality of a person when deciding on a partner?

 

This simple exercise keeps your peace of mind at hand considering many of the after-effects in any given relationship.

We all need a partner worth our happiness and smile to keep our days lovely.

Happy bonding!